Just because I didn’t invite my family in doesn’t mean I was killing it on my own. I caught on real fast that the echo chambers of my traumatized mind were no place to draw inspiration from. Some days I could have given Stephen King some awesome material. Just saying. So church became my home […]
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My husband came home days before he had to turn himself in. I have no idea what he told #2. But we celebrated his birthday as a family. And then, just like that, we dropped him off at jail. He had 3 years to serve. And we absolutely needed it. The wear and tear of
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You know how a dog has no interest in his old bone until another dog sniffs it? That. Suddenly my husband picked up the pace spending time with our daughter. It’s not that he disappeared on her in the beginning. But once he thought he had competition, he showed up at our door on the
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Apparently just deciding to save my marriage wasn’t like Fix-A-Flat. I could snap my fingers all day long, and pain was still my only companion. By now my husband had moved onto woman #2. As in he was shacking up with her. Imagine what poor #1 was going through… Of course, he never bothered to
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Shoo! I got away with it! No harm, no foul, right? So what if I’d cheated? I didn’t get caught. It was done. And now I was active in ministry, diving deeper into prayer. I was spending more and more time with God, healing myself. I was gratefully heading in a good direction some six
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Where did it all begin to unravel? One day we were a happily connected family. Emotionally fulfilled. Open, honest, and available. And then we weren’t. Don’t get me wrong. My husband didn’t suddenly become a bad guy. He came home every night. He paid the bills. He was physically there when we needed him. But
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Let’s face it. Suffering the pain of infidelity is a special kind of Hell. Even though statistics tell us it happens to tons of people all the time, when it becomes our burden, suddenly we are in a deep, dark dungeon. All alone. No one understands. How could they? We’re too ashamed to talk about
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“We started to date. It was awkward. I was dating my husband. How is it I’ve become the other woman? We’d go to dinner, movies, to the park and enjoy each other’s company. We did not talk about what happened. Just chatted it up like we were girlfriend and boyfriend. We probably went on “dates’
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When life hands you lemons, make lemonade. One of the worst seasons of my life birthed purpose in me that I may not have found otherwise. Walking through infidelity has been the most painful thing I have experienced in my life. Sure, I’ve lost love ones, walked through illness with friends and family, and even
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